Piecing It All Together:
Part 05, Breaking Point
“Abuse silences victims and renders them powerless.
Listening makes room for their voice and restores dignity.”
- Diane Langberg
*The following contains references to sexual assault and child sexual abuse and may be triggering to some readers.*
When communities listen to survivor stories, they empower and support survivors on their journey toward restored dignity. Listening to stories of abuse can be a challenging task for church communities. Bearing witness requires paying attention to details and tracking with a large cast of abusers, enablers, bystanders, and allies. In addition to the abuse itself, survivor stories often include countless other secondary and tertiary injuries that compound the initial trauma.
This fifth section of our timeline documents the final stage of the UMD mishandling of abuse allegations that led to the formation of ACNAtoo. Please read Part 01, Part 02, Part 03 and Part 04 of our timeline for reference. Where possible, we have included the primary source evidence alongside the events as alleged by survivors and witnesses.
Who’s Who, May 2021:
Mark Rivera: recent Christ Our Light catechist, former longtime member and volunteer leader at Church of the Resurrection
Stewart Ruch: Bishop of the Upper Midwest Diocese
Joanna Rudenborg: Mark Rivera’s former neighbor who alleges Mark sexually assaulted her on two separate occasions
Cherin Marie: mother of Mark Rivera’s nine-year-old victim, former Christ Our Light vestry member, and long-term Church of the Resurrection member
Eve Ahrens: licensed professional counselor and survivor advocate
Anne Kessler: Executive Director of Operations for the Upper Midwest Diocese
Brenda Dumper: Upper Midwest Diocese Lay Canon to the Ordinary (Bp. Stewart Ruch’s administrative assistant)
Helen Keuning: senior member of the Upper Midwest Diocese Bishop’s Council
Diocese of the Upper Midwest (UMD): one of 28 dioceses within the Anglican Church of North America
Church of the Resurrection (Rez): UMD headquarters in Wheaton, IL, where Cherin Marie, Mark Rivera, Christopher Lapeyre, and Rev. York attended since the mid 90’s
Christ Our Light Anglican Church (COLA): small church in Big Rock, IL that Cherin Marie and other longtime Church of the Resurrection members planted in 2013
MAY 2021
Despite Bp. Stewart Ruch’s assurances to Cherin, Eve, and Joanna that he would immediately begin working on this, no updates or addendums have ever been made to address the misinformation or omissions in his May 4, 2021 letter.
JUNE 2021
Bishop’s Council and response team member Helen Keuning reports that everyone on Bp. Ruch’s crisis response team was distressed by Joanna going public on Twitter: “There were many days of intense Zoom meetings and strategy sessions,” recalls Helen.
JULY 2021
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